We choose the setting tone of what our is like and so forth. Someone could be having a bad day and could lash out at you and try to make it negative or it could just be a cry for help. Just exactly what is that person reason saying. Empathize with that person. Open your arms show them your heart and give them a hug, and whisper in their ear "Everything will be alright!"
At that moment that person could embrace back and release resentment, anger, pain, suffering, sadness, and etc... There is a possibility you may have been that person's first hug since the new year or a long time in 6 months. We as human beings need personal contact. It's how we show God's love within one another.
With today's society we have been taught showing affection can be frowned upon and is an act of weakness. It is actually apart of are DNA code and something we should focus on bringing back. It is one of the reason why we as human beings are so disconnected no only from each other but also from ourselves.
How many people do you actually know that refer to them-self as Human or someone who co-exist with them-self as a Human-Being (Vessel & Spirit)?
Emotions can say a lot about a person. Some people can tend to take it personal and make it " It's the all about me show!" or you can have a care and listen with your heart and open it with your arms and just welcome a friend in and let God do the rest. Trust me it's the best feeling in the world.
Love with an open heart!